Monday, January 21, 2019

Start Strong

Written by: Anthony Phan

In the previous edition of this series, we discussed the challenges of managing the holidays and the ways in which caregivers can handle these challenges. In this edition, we will talk about making New Year’s resolutions that will help you in your journey toward effective caregiving.

The holidays have come and gone; the new year is here; and it’s time to start another chapter. Buzzing from the glow of the holidays, it’s common for one to feel content. You’ve worked diligently for the past year and you’ve strived to finish strong. Hopefully you’ve had the opportunity to rest as well, because now you must return to work. It doesn’t have to feel like work, however. Sure, caregiving can be a demanding task; but if you approach with a smart strategy and an open mindset, it will be rewarding for those involved.

A great way to ensure success is to make a list of goals. Making New Year’s resolutions has been a longstanding tradition; unfortunately, resolutions tend to wane later in the year. The objective is to make small and feasible goals that lead to greater achievements. Start easy and gradually work toward more challenging goals. Instead of viewing a resolution as something that encompasses the entire year ahead, think of it as a personal promise to guide you along the way. For example, rather than making a commitment to follow a strict workout regimen for a consecutive number of days, make an effort to allot a designated timeframe in which you will go on a light walk every other morning. Eventually, you may increase the workload to a jog, or even a run, on a daily basis. This example demonstrates the value of consistency, which can be applied to other aspects of life. Above all, keep your goals simple, concrete, and specific.

With caregiving, there are many resolutions you could make to improve the effectiveness of your efforts. One example of a resolution is to rest more. This is a good idea, but how might one quantify that? Well, a crucial aspect that we often overlook is sleep. Sleep is a powerful tool to replenish your energy and prepare for the next day. To translate this into a concrete goal, you could start by going to bed 5 or 10 minutes earlier than you usually do. Make a conscious effort to unwind and relax at the end of the day. Once you’ve accomplished that first milestone, try going to bed 15 or 20 minutes earlier, then 30 minutes earlier than you used to. This gradual increase will ensure that you stay on track toward your goal of getting more rest. Another resolution could be to view things from a more positive perspective. To achieve this, you could start by smiling or laughing more frequently. Pay attention to details in your daily routine that you might take for granted, and remind yourself why you’re grateful for these little things. Make a list of things that make you happy.

Sometimes we get so engrossed in our duties and responsibilities that we forget the simple pleasures we enjoyed as children. A resolution to spend more time for yourself could be met by incorporating breaks into your schedule. These could be as short as 5 or 10 minutes, but anything helps. Use this time not to worry about your work, but rather, to read or listen to music. Focus on intellectual hobbies that stimulate both your body and mind. Lastly, make an effort to accept help from others. This resolution could be attained through sending short texts or making brief phone calls. Reach out to your family members and friends, and let them know how fortunate you feel that they are there to support you.

Whether you make several resolutions or few, try to keep them realistic. Understand that not everything goes the way we plan; but as long as we set little goals for ourselves, we are bound to go in the right direction. Be open to new possibilities and embrace change that is beneficial. Happy New Year! As always, feel free to leave your thoughts in the comments section below.

References:

https://dailycaring.com/3-new-years-resolutions-for-caregivers/

https://caregiver.com/articles/popping-the-cork/


Monday, January 14, 2019

Care for the Caregiver Event - a day devoted to care giving

Saturday June 15, 2019

10.00am - 4pm

Silver Spring Civic Building, 1 Veterans Plaza, Silver Spring

This FREE event will INSPIRE, EDUCATE, MOTIVATE

We have designed this day especially for unpaid family/friend caregivers. By attending you will increase awareness of caregiver’s supports, health and wellness programs and lifelong engagement available in Montgomery County. In addition, the Listening Session will allow caregivers opportunity to share their needs with stakeholders.



Attend and learn how to maintain well-being through support, community connections and education programs. Event highlights include:
  • Interactive sessions designed for family/friend unpaid caregivers. Attend and learn how to maintain well-being through support, community connections and education programs.
  • Stimulating information presentations that welcome caregiver questions.
  • Unique caregiver conversations with the County's African, Latino and Asian American health programs.
  • Networking and support for LGBTQIA+ care partners.
  • Information Resource Fair featuring (free or low cost) supports available for unpaid caregivers.
  • Listening Session inviting unpaid caregivers to share their needs associated with caring for a loved-on at home.

Click here to Register

(We will keep you up to date via email with presenters, VIP's and program details)

Tuesday, January 1, 2019

Escorted Transportation Options in Montgomery County


There are times when traveling alone just isn’t safe. Fortunately for older adults and adults with disabilities in Montgomery County, escorted transportation is available.

Some communities come together to assist their neighbors as they age in place in their homes. Organizations with this purpose are called “villages.” Many of the villages located in Montgomery County recruit volunteers to provide escorted rides using volunteer driver their own personal vehicles. Some villages require fees to join, some offer scholarships, and still others are completely free. To find out if you live in an area served by a village, click here or call Connect-A-Ride at 301-738-3252.

A non-profit organization called The Senior Connection offers free transportation for medical appointments to County residents over the age of 60. Rides are based on the availability of volunteer drivers. For more information, call 301-962-0820.

Occasionally, volunteer organizations cannot meet every need for escorted transportation. Residents may need to hire private fee-based providers.  For information about these providers, click here and search under “Escorted Transportation,” or call Connect-A-Ride at 301-738-3252.


Alzheimer's Association, National Capital Area Chapter - January 2019 Support Groups

Peer-led groups for caregivers and others dealing with Alzheimer's disease. All support groups are
facilitated by trained individuals. Many locations offer specialized groups for children, individuals with younger-onset specialized groups from children, individuals with younger-onset and early-stage Alzheimer's, adult caregivers and others with specific needs.

January Support Groups
Bradley Hills Presbyterian Church | 6601 Bradley Boulevard, Bethesda, 20817 | 1st and 3rd Friday at 11:45 a.m. | Elaine Byergo 301.906.2520, Lynn Meltzer 301.530.3551

Brighton Gardens of Friendship Heights | 5555 Friendship Blvd, Chevy Chase, 20815 |
2nd Saturdays at 10:30 a.m. | Terri Adams and Nicoline Rademacher 301.656.1900

Gaithersburg Library | 18330 Montgomery Village Ave, Gaithersburg, MD, 20879 | 2nd and 4th Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. | Kim Painter kim.alzassoc@gmail.com 301.467.2157, Joan Quinlan joan.alzassoc@gmail.com, 301.401.3145

Arden Courts of Kensington | 4301 Knowles Avenue, Kensington, 20895 | 1st Tuesday at 6:30 p.m. |Agnes Collins 301.598.4118

Sunrise of Rockville | 8 Baltimore Rd, Rockville, 20850 | 3rd Tuesdays at 7:00 p.m. | Carole Ashendorf: csa9606@gmail.com 281.216.0940

Brooke Grove Rehab and Nursing | 18131 Slade School Road, Sandy Spring, 20860 |
3rd Wednesday at 3:30 p.m. | Bill Neely 301.924.5176 ext 1312, Laura Rounds 301.260.2300

Arden Courts of Silver Spring | 2505 Musgrove Road, Silver Spring, 20904 | 1st Tuesday at 2:30 p.m. | Wendy Johnson 240.413.8690

Holy Cross Resource Center | (Three groups for adult children) | 9805 Dameron Drive, Silver Spring, 20902 | Mondays at 6:00 p.m., Tuesdays at 3:00 p.m., Thursdays at 10:00 a.m., | Sister Kathy Weber 301.754.7152

Holy Cross Resource Center | (Three groups for spouses) | 9805 Dameron Drive, Silver Spring, 20902 | Wednesdays at 10:00 a.m., Thursdays at 3:00 p.m., Fridays at 10:00 a.m. | Sister Kathy Weber 301.754.7152

Leisure World on Georgia Avenue | Interfaith Chapel Library, 3680 South Leisure World Boulevard, Silver Spring, 20906 | 1st and 3rd Wednesday at 3:00 p.m. | Sunny Grunder 301.438.2446, Christina Green 301.570-0525

Alzheimer’s Association, National Capital Area Chapter - January, 2019 Education Programs

January 10th, 6:00pm-8:00pm, 
Community Forum Alzheimer’s Disease, Dementia and Memory Loss
Learn about Alzheimer’s, dementia and memory loss. Bring a friend who has been affected by the disease. Share your thoughts about how we can help people in your community.
Light refreshments will be provided.
Location: Rockville Public Library, 21 Maryland Avenue, Rockville, MD 20850
Registration is requested Call 800.272.3900 or visit alz.org/nca to register.

January 16th, 2:30pm to 4:30pm 
Principles for a Dignified Diagnosis
Attend this program to learn, explore and discover how this important statement is so important for  people living with dementia and for families as they process a Alzheimer’s disease diagnosis.
Location: Bender JCC of Greater Washington, 6125 Montrose Rd, Rockville, MD 20852
Pre-registration required. Please contact Tara Davis-Rama at 240.428.1342 or tkramar@alz.org

New Alzheimer's Act

Please join the Alzheimer's Association and Alzheimer's Impact Movement in celebrating the passage of the Building our Largest Dementia (BOLD) Infrastructure for Alzheimer's Act in the U.S. House of Representatives.

Thank your members of Congress!

Together, our year-long effort to advance a public health response to the Alzheimer’s crisis created a groundswell of bipartisan support in both the U.S. Senate and House, resulting in passage of the bill in both chambers. Importantly, this victory invests in our nation’s ability to improve quality of life and reduce associated costs for individuals and the government. The president is expected to sign the bill into law soon.

The passage of the #BOLDAlzheimersAct marks the conclusion of an historic year in Alzheimer’s and dementia policy victories that also included a record increase in federal research funding and the passage of numerous federal and state bills aimed at improving the lives of those living with the disease and their caregivers. Thank you for lifting your voice this year and for being an Alzheimer’s advocate.

Alzheimer's Association, National Capital Area Chapter - January 2019 Memory Cafe's

The Alzheimer's Association's Memory Cafés offer a fun and relaxed way for people living with
early-stage memory loss to get connected with one another through social events that promote interaction and companionship. This is a place where the care partner can receive information while connecting and sharing with other people in similar situations. The bonds formed in Memory Cafés often last throughout the continuum of the disease and become an additional support for those involved.

Pre-registration required. Please contact Tara Davis-Rama at 240.428.1342 or tkramar@alz.org

Rockville Senior Center
1150 Carnation Dr, Rockville, MD 20850 
1st & 3rd Mondays, 12:00-1:00pm

Bender JCC of Greater Washington
6125 Montrose Rd, Rockville, MD 20852
3rd Wednesdays, 2:30-4:00pm

Leisure World of Maryland
3700 Rossmoor Blvd, Silver Spring, MD 20906
Last Thursday of each month, 2:00 – 3:30pm

White Oak Community Recreation Center
1700 April Lane, Silver Spring, MD, 20904
2nd Thursdays, 10:00 – 11:30am

Olney Library
3500 Olney Laytonsville Rd, Olney, MD 20832
4th Wednesdays, 3:30-5:00pm

Oasis at Macy’s Home Store
7125 Democracy Boulevard, Bethesda, MD 20817
1st Friday 2:00-3:30pm



Caregiver Health Education

Chronic Disease Self-Management Program
Date: Tuesday, January 8, 2019
Time: 1:00 PM-3:30 PM
Location: Holy Cross Hospital Senior Source Center
Fee: Free
Registration: Required. To register, please visit https://goo.gl/PD9L2y
A FREE six-week workshop series for those who want to learn how to better manage and maintain an active and fulfilling life with chronic conditions. Caregivers welcome. Each participant in the workshop receives a copy of the companion book, Living a Healthy Life with Chronic Conditions, 4th Edition.

Long Distance Care-Giving

The Long-Distance Caregiver: Managing Care Across Miles, by Carol O'Dell, Caring.com contributing editor
Story originally was published in Caring.com

If you're a long-distance caregiver, then you know the drill. You call all the time. You coordinate care from 400 miles away. You spend long weekends or vacation time visiting your loved one and hoping before you open that door that they're OK. Worry comes with long-distance caregiving, and so does guilt, but you try really hard to make it work -- and you dread the day that won't be enough. You are not alone. According to a recent Caring.com poll, nearly one-third of all caregivers do not live with or, in many cases, even near their loved ones. Here's a look at a few challenges long-distance caregivers face, and tips to help manage care from afar.

Feeling emotionally connected to your family members.
Sometimes phone calls or visits filled with doctor appointments and home chores don't allow for heart-to-heart talks. As much as there is to cover, make the time to just sit for a few minutes and allow a natural conversation to emerge. Set up a weekly phone-chat date for the times that you're apart. Have it at a time when you both can look forward to it and nothing competes. After you discuss some of your "to-do" list items, begin to share something personal about your own life. Ask their advice on something -- anything -- from the color shoes you should wear to your cousin's wedding to whether you should get a bigger car. Let them feel as if they're a part of your life as well.

Getting shut out.
Many long-distance caregivers, particularly those helping someone with moderate to severe dementia, find that their visits actually aggravate their loved ones -- who are confused and want to "go home" or don't understand why you keep calling them "Dad." Remind yourself that you're not just there to visit. You're there to make sure Mom or Dad are being cared for properly. (Having a loved one with moderate to severe dementia increases the likelihood that he or she is living in a care facility.) Stay out of sight if you have to, but visit the staff, have lunch in the cafeteria, and walk the grounds. Talk to the people your loved one interacts with to find out how he or she is doing. It's painful not to be able to connect, but remember that you're still needed.

Knowing your loved one is safe and appropriately cared for.
Audrey Adelson, author of "Long-Distance Caregiving," writes, "Often, long-distance caregivers obtain important information from their elder or secondhand from family members who have spoken with a member of their loved one's treatment team. This makes it difficult to get a clear understanding of what is really going on." How do you stay in the loop when you're not in the area? How to manage? By having lots of eyes. Whether you coordinate care for your loved one in his or her home or an assisted living facility, start to connect with those who interact with your loved one. Call after an appointment and ask how it went. Let them know you plan to be involved, and be sure to send a thank-you card or friendly e-mail.

Managing insurance and financial needs or making sure you can trust those who do.
Trust is a big issue for long-distance caregivers. When you don't have people who genuinely care for your loved one and communicate with you about what's going on, then you begin to worry, and worry, and worry. Take the time to find professionals who can assist you and your loved one. It's worth the time and effort. Hire an elder law attorney to make sure their financial assets are protected, or check into local resources designed for seniors and their family's needs.

Make a plan for whatever comes next.
Long-distance caregivers dread getting "the call." Whether it's from a concerned neighbor or from the ER at 4 a.m., it's difficult to know what to plan for when anything could happen. Try to laugh (or scream, or sob) when all of your planning and hard work takes a dive and you have to come up with a new plan. Change is inevitable, and when we fight that it that causes us pain. Play "what if." Come up with the three possible scenarios -- a fall, a worsening of a condition or ailment, or a refusal to move even when that's needed. How will you handle it? Can you go ahead and do some online searches? Can you connect with other caregivers and ask how they handled a big change and ask how it's going now? It's easier to face the "what ifs" when you know that somehow, some way, you will get through.

Being a long-distance caregiver comes with challenges you never thought you'd have to face. Sometimes you have to let go, just a little, of all that you can't control. Caregiving isn't easy, and there aren't always solutions, so grab your rear view mirror the next time you're in your car and look at yourself and say, "You're doing the best you can."

National Institute on Aging - Caregiver Support

The National Institute on Aging continues to research and report on caregiver well-being.
Are you making time for yourself while caregiving? Check out these 9 ways to put your own health
and well-being back on the list:
  1. Ask for help when you need it.
  2. Eat healthy foods.
  3. Join a caregiver support group.
  4. Take breaks each day.
  5. Spend time with friends.
  6. Keep up with your hobbies and interests.
  7. Get exercise as often as you can.
  8. See your doctor on a regular basis.
  9. Keep your health, legal, and financial information up-to-date.

Visit the National Institute on Aging
website for more self-care tips for Alzheimer’s caregivers.

Health and Wellness series

Mindfulness II
Date: Wednesday, January 30, 2019
Time: 5:30 PM- 7:30 PM
Location: Shady Grove Adventist Aquilino Cancer Center
9905 Medical Center Drive Rockville, MD 20850
Fee: Free.
Registration: Not Required. More Information please visit https://goo.gl/7PNFVM
Created for graduates of the 8-week Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction / MBSR program. Participants will practice sitting meditation for the first hour, then alternate yoga and yoga Nidra each

Health and Wellness Education

Integrative Medicine Guest Speaker
Date: Tuesday, January 15, 2019
Time: 1:30 PM - 2:30 PM
Locations: Shady Grove Adventist Aquilino Cancer Center
9905 Medical Center Drive Rockville, MD 20850
Fee: Free
Registration: Not required. More Information please visit https://goo.gl/59T21r
In this interactive program, you'll discuss fitness and practice some exercises to help with your cancer recovery.

Circle of Rights, Inc. Stroke Education Events

Ask a Stroke Doctor Webinar 
Research and Technology - It’s important to take things one step at a time after a stroke. What are the most realistic things to focus on for the new year after your stroke? What new research and technologies are available for your specific stroke problems?
Presenter Farah Fourcand, MD, Clinical Investigator, Human Cortical Physiology and Stroke Neurorehabilitation Section National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke, National Institutes of Health. PGY-4 Neurology Resident, Georgetown University Hospital
Upcoming fellow in stroke neurology, neurocritical care, and endovascular surgical neuroradiology
Date: January 11, 2019
Time: 11:45am to 1pm 
Location of event: web
Registration/RSVP’s:  Susan Emery: 301-792-0781; Leave a message or susan@circleofrights.org
Website: www.circleofrights.org

Young Stroke Caregiver Video conference 
Aphasia, Apraxia, and Dysarthria
Communication is essential! The stroke survivor must find the words to communicate with you, be able to pronounce the words, and then you need to understand the meaning of those words. Sometimes, this can be difficult.
Date: January 17, 2019 
Time: 8pm - 9pm
Location of event: web
Registration/RSVP’s: Susan Emery: 301-792-0781; Leave a message or susan@circleofrights.org 
Website: www.circleofrights.org

Alzheimer's Association Supports in Montgomery County

In addition to support groups, the Alzheimer's Association also offers:  

Alzheimer's Association Care Consultation Services 
Feel overwhelmed and confused after a diagnosis of Alzheimer's disease or dementia? We're here to help. Our care consultation services are designed to provide you and family support in coping with dementia (form pre-diagnosis to end-of-life). You will receive one on one advice to better understand the disease, to manage care, and to make more informed treatment decisions.

Alzheimer's Association Memory Cafes Memory Cafes offer a fun and relaxed way for people living with early-stage memory loss to get connected with one another through social events that promote interaction and companionship.

Questions: please call Tara Davis-Rama, Program Manager, Montgomery County-240-428-1342 or email Tara Davis-Rama at tkrama@alz.org

Misler Adult Day Center - Caregiver Support Group


The Misler Adult Day Center social workers lead a caregiver support group that meets twice a month. Under the gentle facilitation of our social worker, families find a haven – a place to talk with others who are experiencing very similar challenges. Caregivers share ways to cope and manage the stresses in their lives. There is much talk, laughter and tears as caregivers connect to those who really understand.

The group meets monthly contact JCA for details.

Location: 1801 East Jefferson Street, Rockville, MD 20852
Terrace Level

Contact: 301-468-1740

Montgomery County’s Caregiver Support Program

Outreach Event at Live and Learn Bethesda  
Caregiver support is a vital part of our community. Every day as a caregiver you experience joys and challenges. All caregivers benefit through: practical guidance, emotional support and as needed: connection with skilled providers. This presentation is welcoming to all community members who provide care for their loved one. Attendees can learn about stress reduction, caregiver education, County resources for caregivers, tools to navigate local supports, how care-givers can maintain a healthy mind, body and soul, planning ahead as a caregiver, and much more.
Presenter: Lylie Fisher, Facilitator - Caregiver Support Program, with the County's Area Agency on Aging

Wednesday Mar. 27, 2019, 10:30 am
Free, registration essential - click here
Location: Bethesda/Chevy Chase Regional Service Center, 4805 Edgemoor Ln, Bethesda, MD 20814



Protecting Your Loved Ones from Romance Scams

Charles E Smith, Life Community annual elder financial breakfast seminar: Don’t Go Breaking the
Bank: Protecting Your Clients and Loved Ones from Romance Scams on February 14, 2019 from 9:30-11:30am at Charles E. Smith Life Communities, Wasserman Residence Social Hall, 6121 Montrose Rd. Rockville, MD 20852.

Featured speakers will include:  Steven Corley, Management and Program Analyst, Internet Crime Complaint Center, FBI; Jessica Hall, Assistant State’s Attorney, Montgomery County, Maryland State’s Attorney’s Office; Mario Wawrzusin, Administrator, Assessment, APS and Care Management Services, Montgomery County Department of HHS Aging and Disability Services.

This event is free of charge but pre-registration is required using this link. Space is limited so please pre-register at your earliest convenience.
Click here to register

Maryland State - Senior Call Check


Maryland Department of Aging is asking your help in identifying and registering people who would like to receive an automated wellness call daily. For more information, click here

HOW DOES IT WORK?
Every day a automated telephone call will be placed to a participant at a regularly scheduled time. These calls will take place between 8 a.m. and 4 p.m. as close as possible to the one-hour time block pre-selected by the participant. If the participant does not answer their first call, they will be tried two more times. If those calls go unanswered, additional calls will be made to notify an alternative person who is selected by the participant during program enrollment. This could be an adult child, a neighbor, or another loved one. The alternate will then be encouraged to check on the older adult program participant.

WHO CAN PARTICIPATE?
Any Maryland resident who is 65 years of age or older who has a landline phone or cell phone. The participant and alternates should not have automated call blocking technology (or they should disable that phone feature for this program).

For Maryland residents who qualify for the program but who do not have access to the Maryland Department of Aging website, www.aging.maryland.gov, you may call our toll-free number to register by phone: 1-800-243-3425

Staying Active with Yoga

Yoga for Every Body
Date: Tuesday, January 1, 2019
Time: 6:00 PM- 7:15 PM
Location: Olney Library
3500 Olney-Laytonsville Rd.,Olney,MD,20832
Fee: Free
Registration: Not required. More information, please visit https://goo.gl/Pk72yA
Join for Free yoga at the Olney Library to explore the benefits of movement, breath, and meditation! The class is geared to those new to yoga or those looking to keeping active.

Save the Date - Alzheimer's Association

January 10th at the Rockville Library from 6 to 8pm

The Alzheimer's Association's National Capital Area Chapter in January 2019 is hosting a Community forum in Montgomery County. The purpose of the Alzheimer’s Community Forum is a town hall style meeting that gathers constituents in a neutral setting to ask questions about the disease, discuss their experiences, learn about resources, and discover how to engage in the cause.

The Forum is designed as a strategy to engage communities and better understand how Alzheimer's Association programs and services can be responsive to the diverse and unique people we serve. Although the Alzheimer's Association is hosting and moderating, this event is designed to be participant driven, not a lecture.

The goals of the forum:
  • Listen to the experiences of the community related to the cause. 
  • Identify needs, gaps in resources, and opportunities. 
  • Elevating awareness and visibility of the Alzheimer's Association. 
  • Listen to the experiences of the community related to the cause.
Potential outcomes of this work are to empower communities, establish a network of supporters, leverage volunteer resources and build community partnerships.

More details to follow.
To learn more about this valuable event contact: Tara Davis-Rama, the Alzheimer Association's, program manager tkrama@alz.org

Caregivers Need Help During The Holidays - Podcast

The holidays are a time for family and celebration. But for caregivers, they are also a time of added stress. Sister Kathy, Coordinator of the Holy Cross Resource Center in Montgomery Country, MD, shares her advice for coping and keeping the holidays special.
https://www.spreaker.com/user/wholecarenetwork/caregivers-need-help-during-the-holidays